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Children, Education, Family, Young@Heart

How to Initiate Reading at an Early Age

 

I am excited to share an article with you, on early reading development by a guest writer Emily Patterson. Emily is currently working as a communications coordinator for Primrose Schools, providing written work to the blogosphere which highlights the importance, and some of the specific aspects, of a quality, early childhood, education. Through an accelerated Balanced LearningR curriculum,Primrose Schools students are exposed to a widely diverse range of subject matter giving them a much greater opportunity to develop mentally,physically and socially.

Submitted on behalf of Primrose Schools: day care services helping to develop active minds and happy hearts by Emily Patterson: 

 

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For decades, we have known that reading to a child and providing them with interactive experiences with books will have a profound impact on how they do in school later in life. There are different stages in which parents can start reading to their children, some starting even when the child is in the womb. The interaction is often much more fun and interesting to the child if you discuss the pictures in the book with exaggeration. It isn’t necessarily important to follow the story. Interaction should be your goal.

Reading to your child from an early age is crucial to raising an avid reader, even when they are already reading in school or preschool. However, you don’t want this time together to seem forced. One of America’s most trusted baby experts, Robert Needlman, M.D., author of Dr. Spock’s Baby Basics states that “There is no prescription for this. The only prescription is to allow some time each day that you can sit down, connect with your child, and read together. The main thing is to allow it to occur in a way that’s joyful, that conveys enjoyment to the child–from enjoyment, the rest will follow.”

Knowing how to choose the right books for your child is also important for retaining their attention. Ideally, the books will have frequent, distinct illustrations. The writing in the book should be rhythmic and simple. Choose something that you will like, along with your child, because you are more likely to be more enthusiastic about the reading. Your child will sense this and these books too. Children will also often like for the same books to be read repeatedly to them, so choosing something that isn’t going to annoy you is going to prove to be more productive for both you. When you are both enjoying a book, your child will naturally develop a love for literature, and watching this happen will make you do the same.

 

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Here are some tips to help you with ensuring that your child loves to read:

-Start reading to your child at infancy, and as early as possible, encourage participation.
-Surround your child with books that are appropriate for their age. Remember, children like lots of bright illustrations, and simple language. Make sure they are of varying topics.
-Don’t forget how much time your child spends out of the house. Keep books available for long trips and for whenever your child needs to be entertained while waiting.
-Maintain a strong relationship with your child’s teacher. Ask for recommendations on books that the child can relate back to classroom.
-Allow older children to “read” to you aloud. They may not read the actual story, but they will usually go to the pictures and relate them to their own story. This is a very important stage in developing literacy. It means that the child is aware that books are meant to tell a story. Allow them to retell the story in whatever way is entertaining them at the moment, and encourage them. They are often very proud of being able to “read”.

Communication is the most important skill you will teach your child. Babies will come out of the womb fascinated with learning how to communicate and how language works. Along with singing and talking to your child, reading is the most important thing you can do to encourage this natural fascination. This will help them understand how written language works, instead of just spoken. This cognitive learning requires a healthy support system from an adult. Ensure that you are doing the best for your child’s development, and make reading together a part of your everyday life.

 

 

Thank you, Emily, for that helpful information, as parents we can all benefit from insights like these. We hope to hear more from you on early childhood development in the future!  😀

 

(@epatt1062)

 

 

 

 

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4 Things..., Be Inspired, Family, Friendship, Lifestyle

4 Things You Can Be Certain Of

 

4 Things You Can Be Certain Of:

 

  • Your children love you unconditionally, they do not care if the house is not tidy or whether you still need to lose five kilograms – they may not “like” you sometimes but their “love” is never under question!

 

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  • True friends are friends no matter what, they do not care where you live, whether you wear designer clothing or if you serve take-out for dinner – these are the people who will come to your rescue, no matter the time – day or night!

 

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  • You cannot choose your family, what you can do is choose to love them – you may not always agree with them but that’s the joy of life, it would be boring otherwise!

 

  • Money will not bring you true happiness or acceptance, it may bring you comfort and pleasure – true happiness can only be found in Faith, Family and Friends!

 

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House Cleaning!

 

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A bit of fun for a Monday morning and especially for those of us, trying to get some order back into our homes  after a busy weekend! Have a great Monday and don’t work too hard! 😉

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Family, Parenting

Guilt Free Parenting – Why Do We Feel So Guilty?

 

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Lately I have found that the word “guilt”, seems to be largely associated with the act of parenting; I have come across a few articles recently about this very association. Strangely enough they actually should have nothing in common but still we keep hearing about how guilty parents feel about : “ not spending enough quality time with their children”, “not participating in school events or functions”, “not giving equal attention to each child”… and so the list goes on.

So firstly let us look at the dictionary definition of the word “guilt” – “an awareness of having done wrong or committed a crime, accompanied by feelings of shame and regret”.  “OMW” 🙁  this does not sound like a healthy mind set for someone trying to parent children.

The big question is, why are we feeling so much guilt and are we passing the “Guilt Gene” onto our children? I sincerely hope not because the last thing I want is my children growing up, with such a negative outlook.

If I think back to my early days of motherhood, I can remember feeling completely overwhelmed by the responsibility I had for this young life – if you let it, this can turn into feelings of guilt, inadequacy and even depression. We might not realise it but we may harbour feelings of regret or guilt from our own childhood and this can often manifest, in a damaging way in our own parenting.

So what can we do to stop this pattern from occurring in our lives? How can we practice Guilt Free Parenting? I think, essentially we need to say NO to guilt! Which brings me back to an article I read many years ago, I cannot tell you who wrote it but the essence is: you need to practice “good enough parenting”. This sounds like such an easy concept but think about it – you actually need to learn how to say “no”. That means not over committing yourself – which can be hard for many of us to do, especially moms. Stop being a people pleaser – ask me, I know I am one, stop trying to be everything to everybody! This includes your children. I need to remind myself, that I do not always have to give in to everything they want and I need to say no sometimes and yes – not feel guilty about it.

This clearly is something I know I need to work on – so let’s say it together “I will banish the guilt!” 😀 Stop trying so hard and being so hard on yourself -stop the blame game – let it go and just be free from it!

A few books on the topic of Guilt Free Parenting which could be helpful to read:

  • “Guilt-Free Motherhood: Parenting with Godly Wisdom”- by Julianna Slattery
  • “Mommy Guilt: Learn to Worry Less, Focus on What Matters Most, & Raise Happier Kids”- by Julie Bort, Aviva Pflock and Devra Renner MSW
  • “The Balanced Mom: Raising Your Kids Without Losing Yourself”- by Bria Simpson
  • “Motherhood Without Guilt: Being The Best Mother You Can Be and Feeling Great About It”-by Debra Rosenberg
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I Recommend..., Young@Heart

I Recommend…

 

 

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In this digital world we live in, people are asking the question – is the power of the printed word becoming a forgotten entity. I definitely do not want my children, to miss out on the power of reading books, first hand – this is not an easy feet with “I pads” and “Kindle’s” taking the world by storm. So in our quest to keep the printed word alive, my girls have compiled a few ideas of age appropriate, recommended reading. I am hoping that this can become a regular segment in my blog.

So if you have children or are looking for gifts here are a few ideas – “real books” read by “real girls” (boys are also most welcome to send in their contributions):

 

 

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I recommend this book for a ten year old or older it is called “Starring Sally J. Freedman as Herself” written by Judy Blume.

I really enjoyed reading this book, it was almost like it was about me and I was one of the characters in the book. It was very interesting and full of amazing adventures that Sally makes up in her head – which I love doing too. So if you like fun and adventure you must read it.

By Alex Rossiter

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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I recommend this book mainly for anyone my age, 7 years or older it is called “Diary of a Wimpy Kid –THE UGLY TRUTH” written by Jeff Kinney.

I have two of the Diary of a Wimpy Kid books but I liked this one the best of all. It’s all about boy called Greg and what happens to him. I loved that it is all funny, gross and weird and so many silly things happen to Greg but I still enjoyed it. It was very funny and I loved reading it – I hope you enjoy it!

By Jessica Rossiter

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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I recommend this book mainly for girls who are ten years old or older it is called “Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret” written by Judy Blume.

This book is great; it is about girls that start a secret club, they talk about growing up and all the stuff that you go through and about boys. It also shows you that girls from different “worlds” can be friends. It was lots of fun to read – I hope you enjoy it.

By Alex Rossiter

 

 

 

 

 

 

Happy Reading!

 

 

 

 

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